There is a teaching found in certain schools of Advaita Vedanta that says that in order to discover your true nature, you must remove all your mental impressions, all your likes and dislikes. Every single one of them. But it raises a very honest question. Is this really possible? Cleaning all your mental impressions, Vāsanās,…
Part 1: Defining Hurt 1.1 The Opening Question Have you ever felt deeply hurt by a situation that left someone else completely unmoved? Same event. Two people. One walks away wounded; the other barely notices. Why? The difference between those two people does not lie in the event. It lies in how they thought about…
What self-esteem truly is, and how we come home to ourselves. Sometimes, when we sit with ourselves, we feel we are not good enough, despite having a supportive family, a loving partner, a good academic record. Many of us struggle with that familiar sentence: I am not enough. We drown ourselves in distraction, immerse ourselves…
Gossip is not just a social bad habit. It is something that actively works against our own wellbeing and inner growth, and understanding why can change how we relate to others entirely. Why We Gossip When someone wrongs us or behaves badly, the mind’s natural response, shaped by years of accumulated hurts, is to narrate…
Introduction We are profoundly skilled at seeing the world, yet unskilled at understanding what we see. Our eyes function perfectly. Our minds register details with precision. And yet, we remain largely blind to the truth beneath the surface of our experience. Krishna in the Bhagavad Gita identifies this blindness not as a failure of the…
By exploring the timeless wisdom of the ancient rishis, we discover that meditation is not merely a technique for relaxation — it is a profound journey of self-discovery that can transform every aspect of your life. What Meditation Really Is — And What It Is Not Before embarking on this inner journey, it is worth…
What Is Vedanta? The word Vedānta comes from Sanskrit, meaning the “final part” (anta) of the four Vedas — the ancient scriptures of India. While the earlier portions of the Vedas are largely dedicated to prayers and rituals, the concluding sections focus on profound spiritual wisdom discovered by ancient sages known as ṛṣis. These concluding texts are called the Upaniṣads, and…
Introduction: The Emergence of Individual Identity In the Chandogya Upanishad, chapter 7, we find the profound declaration: “Sat eva saumya asit” – “Oneness alone was.” This ancient wisdom points to a fundamental truth about reality: in the beginning, there was one non-dual existence, one reality. This oneness, which we call Brahman, is pure awareness or…
There is a simple yet profound metaphor to illustrate one of humanity’s most persistent problems: how our personal likes and dislikes lead us astray in decision-making. The metaphor of over-fertilizing plants reveals something fundamental about the nature of human judgment and the path to wiser choices. The Plant Metaphor: When Love Becomes Harm Consider someone…
Understanding the Root of Our Unease Jealousy is often misunderstood—confused with envy, trivialized as mere possessiveness, or dismissed as a weakness unworthy of serious examination. Yet it remains one of the most powerful emotions that govern human behavior, often quietly directing our choices, corroding our relationships, and limiting our potential. To truly understand jealousy, we…
Introduction There’s a profound first sentence: “Life isn’t here to make you happy.” This isn’t pessimism—it’s the most liberating truth we can embrace. In a world where billions of people are constantly chasing happiness, yearning for life to bend to their will, this statement offers something far more valuable than fleeting pleasure: it offers freedom from disappointment. The…
The Origin of Anger Anger is rooted in pain stored in the unconscious mind during childhood. This pain stems from unfulfilled desires — moments when something we deeply wanted did not happen, leaving behind an emotional wound. Over time, as we grow, this stored pain begins to surface and express itself through anger, hatred, and…
Understanding Self-Esteem: Beyond Surface-Level Confidence Self-esteem = Self-efficacy + Self-respect Many of us carry a persistent inner voice whispering “I am not good enough” — despite having supportive families, loving partners, and successful careers. This voice may be loud or subtle, but it persists, driving us to seek distraction through work, relationships, or achievements that…
We tend to imagine the mind as a single, continuous field—a seamless stream of thinking, feeling, remembering, imagining. It appears unified, solid, and deeply personal. But Vedanta offers a far more precise and transformative view. What we call “the mind” is not a monolithic entity. It is a constant succession of momentary appearances. A thought…
Human life inevitably includes pain. Physical injury, illness, loss, disappointment, and emotional upheaval are universal experiences. Yet, according to the wisdom of the Ashtavakra Gita, pain and suffering are not the same. Understanding this distinction is central to inner freedom. Pain Is a Sensation; Suffering Is a Response Pain refers to physical or emotional sensations….
Understanding the Difference Between Suffering and Psychological Illness In spiritual circles, it is not uncommon to hear sweeping claims: enlightenment dissolves all suffering; meditation cures depression; realization ends anxiety. These statements are often well-intentioned, but they blur an essential distinction — the difference between existential suffering and psychological illness. A spiritual solution will not cure…
Vedānta and modern psychotherapy are often pictured at opposite ends of a spectrum: Vedānta points to the timeless truth “you are Brahman,” while psychotherapy works in the here-and-now with habits, traumas and emotions. Read side-by-side, however, the two approaches are deeply complementary. Swami Tadatmananda, a senior disciple of Sri Swami Dayananda (one of the most…
Vedānta is the teaching of the reality of oneself – “my true nature.” The teaching takes the form of inquiry into the real meaning of the word “I.” That “I” is the Self that remains unchanged from childhood to youth to old age. We learn that this unchanging Self is free from all limitations and…